Why this blog

Hi

I belong to the tribe of sufferers from a strange infliction that outsiders think of as charming, shyness. Only fellow sufferers can know how it is anything but charming.
Yet, down the years, I have found strategies to handle shyness, and hope to share them with you.
I will also pick up and post links to helpful sites that tackle the subject.

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